A Beautiful Mind

Strange Query !!

Last Sunday, while reading the newspaper, my friend told about a query some person had written to get solution from the counselor. The query was somewhat like this “I am an unmarried guy & presently share room with my girlfriend. Next month my mom is coming to see me. She doesn’t know about our relation & I don’t want to tell her now. I can’t ask my girlfriend to leave as where she will go alone. Should I ask my mom to cancel her trip or should I book a room for her in some hotel?” On top of it that fellow asked “Do I sound a bad son?”

The first thing I remembered after listening this was about Sid. My friend is extremely opposite to that guy. Sid has a girlfriend, other day while we were talking on phone, I asked him what do you like the most in her and he said ‘honesty’. He said “she is extremely honest about our relation. When we go out for lunch, she is the first one to tell my mom on phone that we were together this afternoon.” Sid’s parents don’t know that he likes her & wants to see her as his life-partner but they appreciate her honesty as a friend.

Now, about the guy with that query. First of all, why can’t people solve their problems themselves & why do they go for counselors. Probably, then what will happen to the earning of these counselors ;-). I simply do not understand that how can that guy think like this and above all he is himself questioning “Do I sound a bad son?” I say does he has any doubts about it.

If the girlfriend of the fellow knows about this problem then she should be sensible enough to go and live for at least some days with some other friend. But if she knows the problem and both have together written this query to get a solution then I think that girl is an idiot to the core as how can she think this guy will be faithful to her when he has forgotten his mom who was with him for so many years in his life…?? (some may argue that she may have some personal reasons or for others she can be smart enough to live with that person )

I do not like guys who try to pose different by saying that they don’t care much about their family or relations. If people cannot openly accept a relationship, why do they have it? I feel, it is the hiding the truth which spoils the sanctity of any relation.

Excogitated by a_beautifulmind @ 7:07 AM